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despitetheculturalconflictsbetweentheorientandtheoident,theredoexistsomeadmirableingredientsinthewesternculture.
firstandforemost,theequalitybetweenparentsandchildren.theparentsarenotalwayssuperiortotheirchildren,andthechildrendonotalwaysneedtoobeytheirparents‘order,thatis,theyaremorelikeclosefriends.
second,theindependentpersonality.westernpeoplehaveastrongsenseofsupportingthemselvesandbeingindependent.theybeginearningtheirpocketmoneyearlyintheirlife,evenaskids.
last,westernpeopledonotalwaysassessapersonaordingtohisbackground.ifonlyhecanachievesuessthroughpersonalstruggle,hecanwinstatus.it’satalent-orientedsociety,notbackground-oriented.